Tuesday, August 15, 2023

What is the Opposite of, the Antidote for Sinas Chinam? The Brisker Rav Elucidates the Matter

 What is the antidote for שנאת חינם (loose translation - hate for no reason), the way we can counteract it?

Often we hear (and it was perhaps repeated even more recently during the בין המצרים - three weeks period) a well-known and worn idea that goes like this:

The second Beis Hamikdash was destroyed due to sinas chinam (see Rav Avigdor Miller's explanation of that here, not exactly what you likely grew up with,). In order to have it restored, we need to remove and rectify that problem. Therefore we must practice its opposite, אהבת חינם (loose translation - free love, love for no reason) to merit redemption. This thought is often stated in the name of Rav Avraham Yitzchak Hakohen Kook, Chief Ashkenazic Rabbi of Israel, however it seems to have preceded him and come from a Chasidic leader, R. Yechezkel of Kuzmir.

While that seems quite appealing, and fits easily into the modern zeitgeist in Western countries, in reality, such free love, like the more corporeal "free love" of hippies, anarchists, and other radicals, is dangerous, deceptive, and not in accordance with our tradition. Our holy Torah requires, mandates hatred at times. So the Brisker Rav zt"l pointed out that the opposite of sinas chinam, gratuitous hate, is actually proper enmity, hatred when it is just and warranted, for good cause, like hatred of evil and רשעים.

So to merit geulah, בקרוב אי"ה, let us practice love when it is warranted, and hatred of evil when it is in place. And hopefully soon merit the day when the evil vanishes like smoke, as we daven for during the approaching ימים נוראים.

א גוטען חודש אלול

כתיבה וחתימה טובה

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  1. I briefly spoke about this in my Tisha B'Av drashah this year: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eDQmpX8QmT0 I said the opposite of שנאת חינם is not אהבת חינם like the hippies, but getting rid of שנאת חינם.

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    1. שלום עליכם, שלום וברכה,
      honored to have you here. Have seen some of your writings at times, was highly impressed. Thanks for the comment!

      Any thoughts on Rav Avigdor Miller's peshat in sinas chinam (linked to in the post)?

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  2. "The second Beis Hamikdash was destroyed due to sinas chinam (see Rav Avigdor Miller's explanation of that here, not exactly what you likely grew up with,)."

    R. Miller is quoted there as saying:

    "Q: Was the Beis Hamikdash destroyed because of sinas chinam, baseless hatred, among frum Jews?

    A: No, there’s no sinas chinam among the Jews. ... decent Jews don’t have sinas chinam.

    In the times of the Beis Hamikdash it wasn’t Shamai and Hillel and their talmidim who had sinas chinam. It wasn’t the Pharisees and the multitudes of the frum Jews who were their followers, who were the problem. The sinas chinam was from the Tzedukim and the Notzrim. They hated the sages and the frum Jews who sided with the sages. And because they were Jews, it was their sinas chinam for which the Jewish nation suffered. I understand that even some well-meaning writers and speakers have attempted to to apply the accusation of baseless hatred to the frum Jews at the time of the churban, but it’s a serious error. …

    I once saw that an adam gadol wrote – I won’t mention his name – he was misled, and on the strength of this ma’amar that the Beis Hamikdash was laid waste because of sinas chinam, he wrote that unfortunately the frum Jews were too critical of each other and they sometimes suspected each other of not being frum enough. Now, that’s just taken out of thin air! There is no authority for that at all anywhere! ...

    All the writers who speak on this subject misunderstand it. They blame our poor people for sinas chinam. There’s no remez anywhere that there was causeless hatred among the sages and their disciples."

    ואני הולך רכיל מגלה סוד – the “adam gadol” whom R. Miller considers to have been “misled” and to have taken things “out of thin air” was one of the greatest Litvaks of all time: no less a figure than the rosh yeshivah of Volozhin, the Netziv:

    והענין דנתבאר בשירת האזינו על הפסוק "הצור תמים פעלו" וגו' צדיק וישר הוא", דשבח ישר הוא נאמר להצדיק דין הקב"ה בחרבן בית שני שהיה "דור עקש ופתלתל". ופירשנו שהיו צדיקים וחסדים ועמלי תורה, אך לא היו ישרים בהליכות עולמים, על כן מפני שנאת חנם שבלבם זה את זה חשדו את מי שראו שנוהג שלא כדעתם ביראת ד' שהוא צדוקי ואפיקורס, ובאו על ידי זה לידי שפיכת דמים בדרך הפלגה ולכל הרעות שבעולם עד שחרב הבית. ועל זה היה צדוק הדין, שהקב"ה ישר הוא ואינו סובל צדיקים כאלו אלא באופן שהולכים בדרך הישר גם בהליכות עולם ולא בעקמימות אף על גב שהוא לשם שמים דזה גורם חרבן הבריאה והריסות ישוב הארץ …

    העמק דבר, פתיחה לספר בראשית
    http://hebrewbooks.org/pdfpager.aspx?req=14024&pgnum=15

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    1. Thanks for the comment!

      There is a real clash here it seems, genuine מלחמתה של תורה.

      Such discussions and debates are vital parts of Torah study, even if they can get quite lively at times.

      יגדיל תורה ויאדיר

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  3. Just found this site. It's a welcome platform for helping to combat the takeover of Yiddishkeit by Chassidus and neo-chassidus. I live in Rockland County and where I am you can't get away from it.

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    1. א הארציגע ליטווישע ברוך הבא!

      (a hearty Litvishe welcome, for the Yiddish challenged)

      I was wondering if I should extend to you a warm Litvishe welcome, but, on the other hand, as a "cold" Litvak, that might seem like the wrong greeting. So I settled on the hartzig one. :)

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    2. They say that history repeats itself.

      Over two centuries ago, the Chasidic movement was on the march, threatening to take over Torah Jewry. The Vilna Gaon and other גודלי עולם stood up in response, contesting vital points, countering its advances with their great כח התורה.

      Chasidim are now on the march again, but, B"H, לא אלמן ישראל, we have גדולים today too to counter them when they step out of line, they just need to be heeded.

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    3. Thank you for the warm welcome!! You make an important point; we have Gedolim "but they have to be heeded". Unfortunately I don't see that happening any time soon. Kol Tuv

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    4. יש תקוה.

      Even if ignorant masses, a המון עם, upon which the expression עולם-גולם applies, strays (at least temporarily), there are and will be others who don't succumb to the propaganda and fake news operations out there.

      חזק ואמץ!

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    5. Someone once told a litvishe adam gadol (I would rather not say who) that the chassidim won! He responded ניין ניין, מיר זענען נאר אין גלות ביי זיי
      True of course, but its a bittere galus
      LB

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    6. Our gedolim taught us long ago that it is an עלמא דשקרא, a world of sheker, and עולם הפוך (inverted world), with עליונים למטה ותחתונים למעלה, וד"ל.

      There is an eitza לכאורה to be ניצול לכה"פ במקצת, namely to separate from them כמה דאפשר, as Shevet Levi wasn't משועבד במצרים.

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    7. But while we are in this Golus with them, I can't get a Nusach Ashkenaz minyan anywhere near me.

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