Monday, July 27, 2020

Tisha Be'Av Kumzitz - The New Normal?

An advertisement for a Tisha Be'Av night Kumzitz (along with another one the following day) came to my attention recently, and I was quite surprised to see it. The congregation offering it is neo-Chasidic congregation on Long Island, NY, under the leadership of a Rabbi Yussie Zakutinsky, a close disciple of Rabbi Moshe Weinberger of Woodmere, NY (mashpia at Yeshiva University, and Rabbi of Congregation Aish Kodesh).

Note - I subsequently learned that Congregation Aish Kodesh of Rabbi Weinberger had their own kumzitz on Tisha Be'Av night, although it was not advertised as the Lawrence congregation one was. A video of it, with Eitan Katz, can be seen here.

Now the three weeks period, between the observances of יז תמוז and ט אב, can be a challenging time for many people. Especially in the COVID-19 era. For Chasidim and Neo-Chasidim, it can be even more so, since they put so much stress on שמחה.

It seems that for years Tisha Be'Av 'kumzitz'en of sorts have taken place on/around Tisha Be'Av in Eretz Yisroel, especially around the כותל המערבי. However, it seems that they were usually done by groups like NCSY, and also more toward the end of Tisha Be'Av, rather than in the beginning of it. Now by longstanding widespread custom, toward the the end of Tisha Be'Av, there is a shift in the mood, for example, after חצות היום most people sit regularly rather than down low, so such things are not so surprising toward the end of the day. However, to see it advertised in a Shul setting for the beginning of Tisha Be'Av, and in חוץ לארץ too, was surprising.

Another such innovation, coming from the same or similar circles it seems, is to sing together אני מאמין באמונה שלמה בביאת המשיח on Tisha Be'Av night after davening. I have seen that practiced at Cong. Aish Kodesh in Woodmere of the aforementioned Rabbi Weinberger.

Now we can assume that people have good intentions with these innovations. But nevertheless, the question can be raised, are they a good idea, and consistent with our מסורה?

Personally, I don't think so, I think they are definitely a departure.

An excellent article related to this was written a few years ago by Prof. Chaim Saiman.

If people feel an overwhelming need to do such things, esp. in a congregation of youngsters, or a kiruv group, perhaps there is room for leniency for some singing under rabbinic guidance. But does it need to be labeled as a kumzitz and formalized?  To institutionalize them, especially at the very outset of the day, seems problematic.

Additionally, the idea of singing together of אני מאמין באמונה שלמה בביאת המשיח on Tisha Be'Av night after davening seems inconsistent with the theme and mood then, which seems to be describing and bemoaning the terrible, massive חורבן and calling for תשובה, repentance, to remedy the great breach that developed between הקב"ה and כלל ישראל. But if people start singing then that they believe in the coming of משיח no matter what, even if he tarries, that seems to dilute and take the focus and urgency away from תשובה as the answer to חורבן and גלות, because it is implied that משיח is coming anyway.

Those are some thoughts that came to me when contemplating these matters. תורה היא וללמוד אנו צריכים.

May we be זוכה to תשובה שלמה and גאולה שלמה, בקרוב.

4 comments:

  1. I have seen other strange behavior in schuls. One schul dances when returning Sifrei Torah after Kol Nidrei. In the beginning of Yom Kippur, not discussing joy after Yom Kippur, or arguably after Avodah, but beginning of Yom Kippur.

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    1. Interesting.

      Yom Kippur though, has a different nature than Tisha Be'Av. Nevertheless, I think I see somewhat of a parallel, which you probably meant with your words.

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  2. I agree with you, but I don't agree with your reasoning.

    On Tish'a Be'av night, although some kinot have stanzas of נחמה, many remove any references to נחמה. Tish'a Be'av night, we should be focused on the חורבן alone. It is not until Tish'a Be'av afternoon that we add our hope for the future. I believe it is then (in the afternoon) very appropriate to be singing אני מאמין.

    Re: your contention that singing אני מאמין removes any urgency for Teshuva, then why would we sing that song any time of the year? Shouldn't we be doing Teshuva at all times of the year?
    Rather, I believe the song is appropriate since it enhances our beliefs, which we all should know must be accomplished via Teshuva (whether voluntary or forced), but not until Tish'a Be'av afternoon.

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  3. Welcome back.

    I Fully agree. Clearly It goes against our mesorah and shtinkt from new age neo whatever empty fluff ...ism. I remember twenty years ago a group of well meaning Bochurim (ואני בתוכם) in a summer camp began a sort of kumzitz (just sitting on the grass and singing על נהרות בבל) on leil Tisha Be'av, and their Rebbi (born in USA but not today's generation) came out of his bungalow shocked and quickly put an end to it. (Needless to say in a gentle way בשפה רפה). It really made an impression on me that just because it seems to feel right doesn't mean its okay.
    I also think the kumzitz selichos which I believe you have also written about are literally גדול עוונם מנשוא. With no wish to חלילה be מקטרג I cant help but feel הַעַל־אֵלֶּה לֹא־אֶפְקָד־בָּם נְאֻם־ה' אִם בְּגוֹי אֲשֶׁר־כָּזֶה לֹא תִתְנַקֵּם נַפְשִׁי
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